سوال

what if the woman says long before her marriage, "I am divorced if I get married" will she be divorced right after her husband gives her the right of talaq even though she doesn't pronounce it? Does it have any connection with the previous statement about delegation? What if she mistakenly said "I am divorced if I get married" long before her marriage but don't pronounce the words of delegation during her marriage contract. Will the divorce occur? Please explain according to hanafi fiqh. What to do so that talaq doesn’t occur when she gets married? What precautions she can take?

2. Is there any divorce for women where her husband doesn’t give her the right but because of she said something she becomes divorced even though her husband doesn’t delegate the right to her?

3. What to do to prevent divorce of a woman when she has OCD or waswas? How should she console herself when she has ocd thoughts on divorce before marriage?

اَلجَوَابْ بِاسْمِ مُلْہِمِ الصَّوَابْ

If a woman says “I am divorced if I get married”, it has no validity because a woman herself does not have the right to divorce. Through delegation, she only enacts divorce on behalf of the husband. Therefore, such an oath has no validity in Sharia, and no divorce will occur after marriage.

Since you are suffering from OCD and experience obsessive thoughts regarding divorce, it would be better for you not to take the right of divorce.

الموسوعة الفقهية الكويتية (29/ 11):

الطلاق: نوع من أنواع الفرق وهو ملك للزوج وحده، ذلك أن الرجل يملك مفارقة زوجته إذا وجد ما يدعوه إلى ذلك بعبارته وإرادته المنفردة، كما تملك الزوجة طلب إنهاء علاقتها الزوجية إذا وجد ما يبرر ذلك، كإعسار الزوج بالنفقة، وغيبة الزوج، وما إلى ذلك من أسباب اختلف الفقهاء فيها توسعة وتضييقا، ولكن ذلك لا يكون بعبارتها، وإنما بقضاء القاضي، إلا أن يفوضها الزوج بالطلاق، فإنها في هذه الحال تملكه بقولها أيضا۔